By K. Hawkins – Also Published in G Spot Vol 2 Iss 1
So I’ve been commissioned to write another article. Happy Days! Time to get my rant on! Time to spread the word to the unwashed masses – to incite revolution and shine light into the darkness of ignorance to illuminate…dark…things…
Or not.
Truth is that after three years as an activist I’m still uncertain. Not about my beliefs – those I’m pretty solid with. What I’m uncertain about is the way that I go about it.
Activism is about getting your message out. It’s about letting people know that something is going on that needs to be changed; It’s about providing an alternative to apathy, about getting them on your side and getting them passionate about what you’re passionate about. Activism is about asking for help – it’s about convincing people to give up their time and resources so that maybe, just maybe eventually something can eventually happen that might just make the world a better place.
Sometimes all you have is a few seconds to convince someone that your cause is worth their time and effort. So, your means of communication is vital.
Which is why I cringe inwardly when I see poorly organised protests, badly worded or researched articles and inarticulate or poorly informed speakers. It isn’t that I don’t appreciate their good intentions – activism is bloody hard work let me tell you; it’s intensely draining and more than a little frustrating, especially when it feels like you’re the only one in the world who knows, cares or can be bothered doing anything. But, unfortunately your campaign’s success does not depend upon what an honourable and decent person you are. The good opinion of the general public is what you need to succeed – and it will not happen unless you know how to present yourself and your cause.
Let’s face it. We soapbox- dwelling, slogan-chanting, banner-touting, shouty types can get pretty annoying at times. Even I know that. Who hasn’t quickened their pace to avoid getting hassled by the clipboard-wielding, dreadlocked hippies who use bright, perky conversation starters to try to lure you into their fiendish world of whale saving, tree-hugging, bra-burning, rainbow – emblazoned, pamphlet-tossing shenanigans?
Don’t get me wrong – the world needs dreadlocked hippies and flyer flingers. I might find their methods irritating, but they’re still doing good work that needs to be done; and as fake as I may find their cheery smiles to be on occasion – they have my begrudging respect for taking a stand.
Trouble is, people don’t want to be bothered, don’t want to be put out and certainly don’t want the guilt trip of knowing that they could do something. This is annoying because I like to think that most people are fairly good at heart, and would be concerned if only you approached them in the right way (naïve??? No. Just determined and very optimistic). Unfortunately, this initial, irritating first impression is often the only experience that someone may have had with a particular issue or campaign – so it’s not surprising that people will form negative connotations based solely on the actions of one small group. I am constantly exasperated by the antics of a few specific well-meaning yet overly aggressive, narrow-minded and very militant activist organisations because they have no concept of or respect for anyone else’s opinions – their behaviour reflects this and thus sets a bad example for all other advocates of their cause. Hence my cringing. When you openly campaign for something, you are a poster child for every other activist who shares your concerns, which is why it is crucial that you behave in a considerate and respectful manner. As an activist you have a responsibility towards your cause, your colleagues and your comrades. Conduct makes all the difference between an advocate and a petulant, rebellious child.
By nature I am quite a self-conscious person, so when I am running a campaign I always worry about how other people will perceive what I am doing. I am not afraid of harassment or abuse – what does concern me however is that people will get the wrong impression, that somehow my actions will tarnish the reputation of all other Queer/Feminist/Student activists if I screw things up. Image is very important to me – good favour of the public once lost, unfortunately can never be regained.
And this is where the hard part comes in .Balancing your beliefs with the need to promote them. Sell out versus sink. But what if your beliefs are directly inverse to those of the vox populi? Do you water down your politics? You could always attach yourself to a powerful, respected organisation like a political party in the hopes of eventually working your way up. But would you be willing to preach ideals not your own in order to achieve what you want?
If there’s one thing worse than poorly organised activists – it’s insincere ones. We see it every day in politics – people pimping a squeaky clean, caring image, quoting the right catch phrases and smiling for the camera when in fact their only interest is their bank balance and their resumé. (NUS National Office? I’m looking squarely at you). Integrity is fifty percent of activism, so if you don’t genuinely believe in what you’re fighting for, chances are you’d be doing yourself and your organisation a favour by quitting the moment you realise that your heart is no longer in it. If the activists aren’t serious about what they’re doing – then how can the public be expected to be? The moment they smell a phoney – game’s up. Insincerity trivialises the issue at hand and betrays the trust of the people.
Which brings me back to my original question – how do you get the masses on your side without compromising your message?
The answer is simple. Being reasonable.
That doesn’t mean compromising or watering down what you believe in. It’s about making people realise that you are as human as they, about communicating with them in terms that they understand and on their own level. People do not want to feel patronised or overwhelmed, so your tone and attitude is everything. Being an activist does not mean intimidating, indoctrinating or harassing people, it is about providing them with information and an idea – and empowering them to arrive at their own conclusion. Activism is education – new facts, new concepts, new actions, and it cannot be a one-way street.
If you engage people instead of harassing and bombarding them, you’re far more likely to gain an ally.
Getting your ideas out requires having respect and being tactful while sticking to your guns and not abandoning your principles. It isn’t about converting people – it’s about presenting a new point of view.
Activism is primarily about ideas, and as an advocate for whatever idea you are promoting you will at some point be obliged to defend those ideas and justify your arguments. This usually insinuates a good deal of debate – which can often get heated. However, because we put so much of ourselves into our beliefs – it is very easy to take it personally when they are questioned and sometimes outright condemned. Here we find the peripeteia between a civilised and respectful debate, and an all-out, mudslinging battle of personalities.
In this line of work there needs to be a certain point where you check your ego at the door and realise that there may be a few holes in your theories and that your arguments may well be flawed.
Ideas should not be solid, inflexible things – they need to change with the times and adapt to new situations, ever changing and developing to accommodate new ideas and perceptions. This is why, when standing up for what you believe in, it is essential to remember that a dose of humility is often necessary. A good activist is one that can separate themselves from their argument and see things from other perspectives, who can occasionally admit defeat and remain open to new concepts – even if they contradict their own ideas. Having something that you believed in disproven or tarnished always hurts (I speak from experience) but it is something that you have to prepare for, and it cannot be taken personally. There is no shame in rethinking your arguments when necessary – being stubborn and close-minded never got anyone anywhere.
Activism is about other people – it is about looking outward, investigating, communicating and establishing networks with whoever you can. Considering and re-considering; engaging, educating and empowering. (I’m really doing well with the alliteration today..).
Sometimes I would love to pack up my rainbow-coloured swag and go and live in a cave somewhere where I and my Queer, feminist, multicultural, greenie student activist chums could drink cheap wine and listen to Ani DiFranco all day. It would be nice to live in a bubble – but simple fact is that we can’t ignore the rest of the world. Yes. I know at times the general public can be apathetic, ignorant and an infuriating mob of drones, but much as we hate to admit it – we will not get far without people to help us.
So, to my fellow banner-painting, blog-writing, seditious darling little upstarts I say: Keep up the good work, but keep your temper.
To everyone else – next time you pass a dirty hippie in the street, give them a chance. God forbid you might actually learn something.